Dear Gentle Butch, I'm a fairly well adjusted single lesbian. I've had female lovers since I was a teenager, and have had a fairly fun and active sex life. However. My last two major relationships were with women who could not orgasm. So, it's literally been more than 8 years since I've gotten a woman … Continue reading Can I still make a woman orgasm?
Month: January 2020
How do I interpret my partner’s messages?
My long-term partner and I have been bouncing around the general thoughts that long-term partners have sometimes, about wanting the excitement that comes with the start of a relationship and how kids drain the energy from being together and so forth. Sometimes, in these conversations, she brings the topic around to open relationships, but in … Continue reading How do I interpret my partner’s messages?
How do I break up with my massage therapist?
How do I break up with my massage therapist? I have been seeing a massage therapist for almost a year, and I have recently developed very strong feelings for him. There is no chance of me pursuing a relationship with him — aside from his professional obligation to not date clients, he is straight and … Continue reading How do I break up with my massage therapist?
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