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Month: January 2015

How Do I Increase My Queer Visibility?

January 28, 2015October 26, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

I really want to know how to be perceived as queer in public. I am a femme-presenting queer, and I find myself exhausted lately by the constant coming out that I’ve been doing, even in places where I think I’ve dropped every hint except tattooing a rainbow across my forehead. I spent last Thursday night defining the … Continue reading How Do I Increase My Queer Visibility?

Someone Is Being Mean To My Kid

January 21, 2015October 25, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

My eight-year-old child is on-again, off-again friends with a kid, L., in his/her school. They have a lot in common and sometimes they are very close, but sometimes L. hurts my child’s feelings intentionally. I feel like L. is a bad friend and I want to tell my child to just DTMFA, (Dump The Motherfucker Already) but am I … Continue reading Someone Is Being Mean To My Kid

I Just Got Married And It Isn’t Going Well

January 6, 2015October 24, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

My wedding was a month ago, and things aren’t going very well. My husband is withholding sex. He has done this before, and I know you are probably going to say I shouldn’t have married someone so childish and selfish. But, I did, and now I just need to figure out what to do going forward. I’ve given him … Continue reading I Just Got Married And It Isn’t Going Well

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