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Month: February 2015

My Partner Loves Her Sick Cat More Than Her Family

February 27, 2015October 26, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

I deeply love and am committed to my partner. I love her, love being with her, and love our relationship. I want to be a great partner in a healthy, loving way. We’ve been through a few tough situations- a kid in the hospital, work stuff, etc and she and I usually work through it really well. This … Continue reading My Partner Loves Her Sick Cat More Than Her Family

How Do I Make New Friends?

February 18, 2015October 26, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

I’m rebuilding my social life after some hard times that included changes in where and with whom I spent time.  So far so good, though I’m still shaky and shy on the inside a lot. But I’m taking steps and seeing good initial results. Now I want to find places to hang out with other genderqueer and/or kinky … Continue reading How Do I Make New Friends?

How Does Someone Refuse Unhelpful ‘Help’?

February 11, 2015October 26, 2017 / haddayr / Leave a comment

I’m going blindo. I have night blindness and some peripheral vision loss, but I’m nowhere near legally blind and don’t need a cane yet. It basically means I take a little longer to get around, especially in the dark, since I have to scan back and forth to get the whole picture (if that makes any sense).  … Continue reading How Does Someone Refuse Unhelpful ‘Help’?

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